End of a Frenzy
Thursday, March 27th, 2008I am really looking forward to answering the first Norwegian who asks what I did over Easter break. “Well,” I will say, “We trained up to Lillehammer and then flew up to the Lofotens, drove around all the islands, flew to Trondheim, trained to Røros, approached the Swedish border, trained back to Oslo to bus to Fagernes, drove around Valdres, and then returned to Oslo.” If you track that trip on a map of Norway you’ll see we more or less covered the entire country. Not bad for two weeks! On top of all that this has been an epic week for me personally. I was placed on the waitlist at MIT, which was moderately disappointing (but better than a rejection), and accepted at NYU Steinhardt. I was also interviewed twice by, and offered an internship with, PBS’s Arlington, Virginia headquarters (which pretty much means Washington DC) in “corporate communications.” I’ll be responsible for bringing in fresh ideas about media campaigns, web sites, recruiting viewers, and programs, among other things. It’d be a cool job anyway, but I think it’ll be especially exciting to be working with media in Washington on an election year like this one.
I guess I left off at Røros. Everything was closed on Monday for Second Easter, which was disappointing because we wanted to buy pretty copper bowls and other handicrafts. It was also very, very cold, and the train station was closed when we arrived. Oops. We walked to a nearby hotel and took shelter in their lobby. Dad and I looped through town until our noses fell off, but then we had to come back. The train ride was relatively uneventful. We spent the first leg in the quiet car (a sign implored us to “ikke snakk” — don’t talk, not don’t snack), which was totally peaceful and empty until one random stop in the middle when a dozen families poured in at the same time, from which point on it was chaos. Our second train, from Hamar to Oslo, was very nice. We upgraded to the deluxe cabin, so we had free coffee and power outlets and comfy chairs. That turned out to be a good move since the train had mechanical problems and was over an hour late bringing us home.
My crummy little dorm room never seemed so nice as it did that night. After squeezing into hotel rooms with my parents for a couple weeks it was pure luxury to sprawl on my bed with my computer volume way up. However, I almost became trapped there the next morning when I couldn’t find my key. I tore up the place searching frantically. It was in my door.
Our bus to Fagernes broke down so we had to transfer to a new one and arrived an hour late. We were getting worried that we wouldn’t know where to get off, but that was silly because the bus pulled into a big parking spot right in front of our hotel, a Quality Inn. The hotel was weird. For one, it was a massive yellow building. Huge. The first floor was a maze of parlors and dance floors and dining halls with room for thousands of people to congregate. But Fagernes is kind of far out there, and we were among maybe ten guests in the whole place? It was kind of eerie. Other than that it was the typical Norwegian hotel with dead stuffed bears guarding the main stairway and a generous breakfast buffet.
There was nothing to do in town. We got the dinner recommendations mixed up and ended up eating microwave meals at a cafeteria. My salmon-in-tinfoil was ok, but Mom had chicken and a wretched salad that combined raisins with green olives. Don’t ever do that. Mom and Dad went to the local folk museum where they hit the genealogical jackpot: a friendly old man with logbooks of all the local farms. He traced one of our relatives, Ola Ulven, to a farm about 20 minutes out of town, and Dad contacted the resident relative, Olaus. Unfortunately Olaus’ father Ola just passed away on Friday after breaking his leg and suffering a quick infection. Really awful. The family was very nice, though, and agreed to let us visit on Wednesday afternoon.
There was some difficulty arranging for a rental car, but when we finally located one (late in the afternoon, it had just driven here from Oslo) Dad found out that the Hertz guy lived right next to the Ulven farm. Following his instructions, we reached the farm around 3:30pm. It is now a dairy and potato farm, and the family that greeted us was exceedingly nice. There are two houses, one for the husband and wife and five children and one for the grandmother and, until recently, grandfather. They sat down with us for about an hour and traced our heritage through the books. The link was so far back that it was almost uncomfortable, we really felt like we were barging in to this family’s home, but they kept being nice and chatting. They brought out the atlas to show us where in Norway the wife was from and then flipped to the US to see where Oregon was. They invited us to stay for dinner, which was lamb and carrots and potatoes. My favorite part was watching the grandmother and the feisty littlest son (6 years old) interact. They would play little teasing batting games with their hands as they sat next to each other at the table and smile mischievously (the little one) and warmly (the grandmother) back and forth. It struck me that this woman who had worked hard on a farm her whole life and just lost a husband was still so full of life.
After leaving the Ulven’s we drove around a bit and photographed the local church, but the grave stones were buried in snow so there wasn’t much sleuthing to be done. The sun was setting and the ice was re-freezing on the roads, so we headed back to the hotel. Rather than spend another evening sitting around I took the 3-hour bus back to Oslo and was again able to enjoy the relative comfort of my own little dorm. Mom and Dad bussed back today and are off shopping. We will head out for dinner soon and run a few last errands before they leave for their hotel and fly out in the early, early morning. I’m already a little sad to see them go, but it’s not over yet. They just returned to the room so we’re off.

